The Lamoreaux Family: Christmas Wishes

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Christmas Wishes

So, I never have my kids ask "Santa" for things, because I think that tends to make them think too much about what they want, instead of focusing on giving.

This year, however, I was having a hard time thinking of what to get for several family members, so for family home evening, I made a little questionnaire for each person to fill out. It was actually really fun to read their responses. Here are some of my favorites:

(Mallory) What household items would you like to receive as gifts? A pig

(Jace) What are some weaknesses you would like to overcome? Sppellings

(Jace) If you had $100 to spend on yourself, what would you buy? "Knives..." What household items would you like to receive as gifts? "Knives"

(Zach) What school/intellectual subjects interest you? "About atoms, about germs."

All Courtney's answers just fit her perfectly. They were organized, thoughtful lists. I'm sure she'd already thought through all these things before. (She has lots of "wants") I thought it was cute that one of her answers to "one of her favorite snacks" was "kumquats" (along with Yummy Earth suckers, Doritos, & Sour Cream Bunny crackers)

(Andrew) If you had an afternoon with nothing else to do, what would you spend time doing? "Playing at a friend's house, eating at their house, and eating cookies"

(Aliysa) What things make you feel pampered? "My own room, pajamas, gold, jetted tubs, servants, ice cream, money, and fuzzy socks."

Abby answered most of the questions I asked her. I thought it was funny just to ask the questions just like they were written, and listen to her responses: "What are your favorite snacks?" "Um, I like Odwalla bars, and I like raisins, and I like popcorn, and um, I like nuts, and I like peanut butter, and I like jam! And I like honey, and I like crackers, and I like apples, and I like berries, and I like hot sauce! And carrots, and I like bread." What type of books do you like to read in your spare time? "Um, um, (pointing to the bookshelf) doze ones are my favowites." What are a few of your very favorite books? "I like flowers."

(Spencer)What are some weaknesses you want to overcome? "Teasing, not putting stuff away." What would help you over come these? "Having to wash walls."

(Zach) What are your favorite snacks? "Raisins and Odwalla bars."

(Andrew) What hobbies would you like to pick up in the near future? "I want to tackle the nacho man and get free nachos" (It's been over 2 years since Spencer and Jace tackled the "nacho man" at one of Bob's football games!)

I was helping Zach fill his out, and I asked him: "What clothing items do you need or want?" He looked kind of sheepish, then whispered really quietly: "Unders" (then he giggled)

(Andrew) What things make you feel pampered? "Cuddling with you, you cuddling with me."

(Andrew) What talents would you like to develop? "Headstands"

(Jace) What things make you feel pampered? Breakfast in bed, soft beds, and uninterrupted time on the toilet.

(Bob) If someone were to make or sew some things for you, what items would you want them to make? "A football uniform I could wear around on Saturdays with a special sewn little helmet I could wear with it."

Thanks for the response, Bob. (I'm sooo tempted to actually make him one, and to insist that he actually wear it.)

Well, my shopping lists should be much easier now.

5 comments:

Lisa said...: Oh man, Andrew's response about "Unders" made me laugh. Good post, Tash. I thought it was interesting that most responses were about food... You sure you're feeding those kidlets enough??; November 30, 2010 at 8:38 PM
Elder & Sister Lamoreaux said...: Thank you for sharing these fun and funny answeres to the survey. What a great idea. Good luck. Love Ya, Mom & Dad; December 2, 2010 at 1:04 AM
Tara said...: I loved the "unders" part too. What a great idea. I too am struggling with the same thing.; December 2, 2010 at 6:17 AM
Ahren said...: That's a great idea! I loved all the responses especially Zach's "unders" and Bob's cute homemade football outfit description.; December 2, 2010 at 10:07 AM
The Huber Family said...: I loved Alyisas response. Good choices.; December 11, 2010 at 6:07 AM

Fill the spiritual needs

“some parents become so expert at filling every physical desire for their children that they begin to suppose that all is well in this life and that their eternal stewardship is progressing right on schedule. … I believe that we must pause and take a careful inventory to determine how well our families are doing spiritually. We could ask how well are we feeding, nurturing, training, and exercising the spirits of our children; or how well have we taught, trained, loved, and inspired our children to build their spiritual muscles and strength? … Remember, eternity is now, not a vague, distant future. We prepare each day, right now, for eternal life. If we are not preparing for eternal life, we are preparing for something else, perhaps something far less.”

–M. Russell Ballard

Pray with your little ones

"Behold your little ones. Pray with them. Pray for them and bless them. The world into which they are moving is a complex and difficult world. They will run into heavy seas of adversity. They will need all the strength and all the faith you can give them while they are yet near you. And they also will need a greater strength which comes of a higher power. They must do more than go along with what they find.

They must lift the world, and the only levers they will have are the example of their own lives and the powers of persuasion that will come of their testimonies and their knowledge of the things of God. They will need the help of the Lord. While they are young, pray with them that they may come to know that source of strength which shall then always be available in every hour of need."

-Gordon B. Hinckley

Be Wise In Our Diet

“…let us consider our relationship with ourselves. We must each take proper care to see that the little things regarding our personal life are in order. We must learn to care for our health and our mental well-being. Do we maintain proper exercise to give us the energy and alertness of mind necessary to keep our spirit strong & our attitude positive? Are we wise in our diet? Do we avoid the unnourishing snack that might keep our stomach full but our health quite empty?

–Joseph B. Wirthlin, Finding Peace in Our Lives, p. 59

Turn it off, walk out...

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland:

“Tragically, the same computer and Internet service that allows me to do my family history and prepare those names for temple work could, without filters and controls, allow my children or grandchildren access to a global cesspool of perceptions that could blast a crater in their brains forever. . .

“Along with filters on computers and a lock on affections, remember that the only real control in life is self-control. Exercise more control over even the marginal moments that confront you. If a TV show is indecent, turn it off. If a movie is crude, walk out. If an improper relationship is developing, sever it. Many of these influences, at least initially, may not technically be evil, but they can blunt our judgment, dull our spirituality, and lead to something that could be evil. An old proverb says that a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step, so watch your step.” (Place No More For the Enemy of My Soul, April 2010)

Only a teacher

"If any parent needs added inspiration to commence his God-given teaching task, let him remember that the most powerful combination of emotions in the world is not called out by any grand cosmic events nor found in novels or history books—but merely by a parent gazing down upon a sleeping child. That glorious biblical passage, 'created in the image of God,' will acquire new and vibrant meaning as a parent repeats this experience. Home will become a haven called heaven, and loving parents will teach their children 'to pray, and to walk uprightly before the Lord.' (D&C 68:28.)"
--Thomas S. Monson

Quote

“Imagine yourself as a living house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what He is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on: you knew that those jobs needed doing and so you are not surprised. But presently he starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make sense. What on earth is He up to? The explanation is that He is building quite a different house from the one you thought of—throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were going to be made into a decent little cottage: but He is building a palace. …”
--C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

Raise up patriots

The importance of teaching & training

"In 1904, President Joseph F. Smith said to parents: “Do not let your children out to specialists … , but teach them by your own precept and example, by your own fireside. Be a specialist yourself in the truth.

… Not one child in a hundred would go astray, if the home environment, example and training, were in harmony with the truth in the gospel of Christ, as revealed and taught to the Latter-day Saints.”

The ideal way to transform your home into a house of learning is to hold family home evening faithfully. The Church has reserved Monday evening for that purpose. In 1915, the First Presidency instructed local leaders and parents to inaugurate a home evening, a time when parents should teach their families the principles of the gospel.

The Presidency wrote: “If the Saints obey this counsel, we promise that great blessings will result. Love at home and obedience to parents will increase. Faith will be developed in the hearts of the youth of Israel, and they will gain power to combat the evil influence and temptations which beset them.”

President David O. McKay gave the same promise in 1965 and added that the youth will gain power “to choose righteousness and peace, and be assured an eternal place in the family circle of our Father.”

In 1976, the Presidency reaffirmed that “regular participation in family home evening will develop increased personal worth, family unity, love for our fellowmen, and trust in our Father in heaven.

Considering these glorious promises, we would expect every faithful member to be exceedingly diligent in following this prophetic counsel. But, of course, we are all human, and our best plans don’t always materialize. Why not? Let it not be for lack of commitment."

--Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, Spiritually Strong Homes and Families

Our Health Duty

“I am grateful to understand that my physical body is an eternal component of my eternal soul, and that I have a duty to honor and respect and care for it, and to refrain from knowingly imposing upon it any treatment or substances deleterious to it. While I could not choose nor govern the condition of the body into which I came, I have the responsibility to give it the best care I can, and if I do not I am acting in derogation of a great gift of God.”
--Marion D. Hanks, “For Man is Spirit”

Come to the Temple

"The season of the world before us will be like no other in the history of mankind. Just as this is the dispensation of the fullness of times, so it is also the dispensation of the fullness of evil. There is no safety in the world: wealth cannot provide it, enforcement agencies cannot assure it, membership in this church alone cannot bring it. We must come to the temple for light and safety. There are hosts of unseen sentinels watching over and guarding our temples. There will come a period of time when even the elect will lose hope if they do not come to the temples. They will long to bring their children here for safety's sake. The covenants and ordinances will fill us with faith as a living fire. In a day of desolating sickness, scorched earth, barren wastes, sickening plagues, disease, destruction, and death: we as a people will rest in the shade of trees, we will drink from the cooling fountain. We will abide in places of refuge from the storm, we will mount up as on eagle's wings."
--Vaughn J. Featherstone